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Domestic Violence is

DV can be defined as a pattern of behavior, in any relationship, that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner. Abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure, or wound someone. Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, economic class, immigration status, religion, or gender. It can happen to couples that are married, living together, or who are dating. Domestic violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and educational levels.

Does the person you love...

Threaten to hurt you or other people you care about?

Hit, kick, punch, push, choke or use physical force against you?

Criticize or blame you for everything that goes wrong?

Humiliate you in front of other people?

Control your access to money?

Control the decision-making in your relationship?

Control your time and actions?

Put you down, call you names, make you feel like you’re crazy?

Destroy your property or abuse your pets?

Threaten to hurt you or commit suicide if you leave?

Force or coerce you to have sex when you don’t want to?


If you’ve answered “yes” to any of these questions, you may be in an abusive relationship. You are not alone; many people just like you are dealing with violence at home. You didn’t cause the violence and no one has the right to hurt you. If you would like to talk with someone, free and confidential help is just a phone call away.